The dark side of being a super-achiever..
Ever wonder what it feels like when you don’t have any options? Feeling down when you feel that nobody is giving a cool head, appreciation for all the hardwork and effort that you have shown them for a long-long time just to say that you can fit in?
What if you have too many options that sometimes it is compulsory for you to choose only one in your life? In retrospective point of view, so this will seem like you are back to square-one…Without any options, right?
"Mr F…3 months working for new product development in Japan. Ok ka?" said my Boss imitating a Japanese English accent…
I have worked so hard to express that I can fit in to any situation, any workscope that they throw me into. Providing me with time, I proved them all that I can also be as best as they can be, maybe even better. I have other options, but I already stepped in, so why stop?
Prioritize.
We’ll see what will develop. If I have to go to Japan, I shall give them smooth talk that I can’t..Because the timing will overlap my wedding on January. Furthermore, I have to do lot’s of preparatory preliminary paperwork for me to continue PhD together with my spouse.
The dark side of being a super-achiever…Once you get up the step in the pyramid of achievement, sometimes you will lose your space…
